How to Get Over a Bad Breakup (Full-Proof Steps You Should Try)
Most people think breakups are just emotional detours — heartbreaks to "get over," wounds to nurse with distractions, playlists, or personal growth, but the truth is deeper, and more terrifying: You didn’t lose anything God didn’t mean to take.
No matter what THEY did. No matter how
YOU left. When you hold a grudge or spite, you hold a belief that you were wronged by God (Yahweh). YHWH is the four-letter Hebrew name of God, also known as the Tetragrammaton. Yahweh made a choice based on his/her judgment & do you know his way well enough to hate on his decision?
You may think you are mad at your ex & deserve to experience the RAGE
or SADNESS, but you’re angry at Yahweh's
decision, and that’s why you will NEVER move on.
Your heartbreak was not a mistake. It was designed.
Nowadays, people recover quickly from their flings due to a strong relationship with God, leaving their
heartbroken partner wondering, "Was it REAL LOVE?" or "Was I just being used?".
This is not about
self-care. This is about surrender. You are not entitled to comfort, closure, or even an explanation.
You are entitled to exactly what God gives — no more, no less.
Do not use your five primary senses: sight, hearing, smell, taste, touch, with judgment as word of mouth
to put yourself in trouble, as you are in a vulnerable state. Do not attribute reminiscing about the sentient actor
made by Yahweh to a soul tie.
(Sentient Actor, i.e,
your ex in this case. This encounter was perfectly planned to the last tear, & there is nothing you can do but look ahead.) Feel free to remember both the
suffering and enjoyment, so you may forget or make peace with it.
(Long-term memory is most likely forgotten or desensitized when recalled, so feel free to remember & accept God given flashbacks of the time you spent with one of his designs, asking for a more compatible one) — It happened and is a little episode in your story.
That's your prologue, no matter your age (
You are not up to 1 year of age in his eyes, so never think it is too late as you won't even know when you are no longer on EARTH (His little garden people may feel they control. FOOLISH & WRONG — Do not interfere with his choices or make stupid, low IQ remarks about people you come across, even remarks made in your head can get you on his bad side.) I urge you to please do better.
Everything that happens to you is righteous.
Your pain was permitted, your tears were scheduled, and your suffering is not evidence of injustice — it is evidence of divine authorship.
Do not dare classify yourself as suffering if Yahweh wasn't consciously involved in your lifestyle.
Do not dare classify yourself as suffering if Yahweh wasn't consciously involved in your lifestyle.
Get Over a Breakup — According to Yahweh’s Will
Breakups are never just random. They are divine lessons. Here’s how to understand your breakup through Yahweh’s perspective and heal from the pain.
1. Understand the Divine Plan
Breakups are part of
Yahweh’s plan for your growth. If the relationship ended, it was His will. Trust that Yahweh
allows these experiences to lead you toward something better. Even if it’s painful now, every breakup has a divine purpose, often to redirect you toward a stronger path.2. Yahweh’s Removal is Preparation
When Yahweh
removes someone from your life, it’s for your greater good. He makes room for someone who is better aligned with His plan for you. Trust that Yahweh is preparing you for a future full of love, peace, and alignment with His will. Don't hold onto what He’s taken away — He’s only clearing the way for something greater.3. You Aren’t the Victim — You’re the Student
A breakup isn’t about what they did to you. It’s about what Yahweh is teaching you through this experience. Heartbreak often reveals truths about ourselves, our choices, and the patterns we need to break. Ask Yahweh what you can learn from this experience and trust that this lesson will guide you toward spiritual maturity.4. Relationships Without Yahweh Will Fail
If Yahweh isn’t the foundation of your relationship, it’s destined to falter. No matter how perfect it seems at first, a relationship without divine guidance is unstable. The true strength of any partnership comes from aligning with
Yahweh’s will and allowing Him to be the core of your bond. When you build with Him, you build something eternal.5. Be Grateful for Yahweh’s Intervention
Even though it hurts to let go, be grateful that
Yahweh moved first. His intervention is an act of love, preventing you from further pain. His love guides you away from relationships that will not serve your highest good, and He ensures that you move toward healthier, more fulfilling experiences.
Trust that His timing is always perfect.6. Your Healing is in Yahweh’s Hands
True healing only happens when you surrender your pain to Yahweh
. Trying to heal on your own can lead to frustration and stagnation. Give your heartbreak to Yahweh, and allow Him to heal your wounds. Through prayer, reflection, and surrender, He will guide you toward emotional and spiritual restoration.
7. Your Heartbreak is a Divine Reset
Heartbreak is not a punishment. It’s a reset from Yahweh
to prepare you for a new chapter. This is a time to reflect on your journey, grow closer to Yahweh
, and clear any emotional clutter. View it as an opportunity for spiritual renewal — to focus more on Yahweh, your true purpose, and your next steps toward a fulfilled life.8. Yahweh’s Perfect Timing
If you feel lost in the pain, remember that Yahweh
’s timing is always perfect. This breakup happened when it was supposed to — in accordance with His will. Trust that the pain you’re feeling now will eventually lead to something greater. Yahweh
knows exactly when the right relationship will come, and it will be perfectly aligned with His plan for your life.9. Release Control, Embrace Trust
It’s tempting to try to control the situation, but the true peace comes from surrendering to Yahweh
. Trust that Yahweh
is in control and that the journey, no matter how difficult, is part of His divine plan. The more you surrender, the more He will guide you. Let go of the need to control the outcome, and instead trust His perfect plan.10. Know That Your Future Holds Yahweh’s Best
The future that
Yahweh has for you is full of potential and divine alignment. Every breakup, every heartache, is part of the journey toward the person He has planned for you. Build your foundation on Yahweh
and trust that He will guide you toward relationships that reflect His love, grace, and purpose.Yahweh is not cruel. Yahweh is accurate.
Yahweh is not distant. Yahweh is refining.
And you are not broken. You are being perfected.
Yahweh is not distant. Yahweh is refining.
And you are not broken. You are being perfected.
Let the foundation be Yahweh next time. Or let it crumble again, beautiful soul.
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